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My Top 5 Frugal Wedding Tips

Getting married in the Philippines is definitely not cheap! Some couples spend millions of Pesos for their dream weddings. However, if couples spend their life savings on their wedding preparations then how can they save money for their car, house, travels, future children’s education fund or their own retirement fund?

Mr. Shutterbug and I got married in The Transfiguration Chapel in Caleruega, Batangas 5 years ago. It was not cheap because it was a destination wedding and we paid for our wedding entourage and our families’ overnight accommodation. Fortunately, with a lot of planning and tight budgeting, we were still able to cut a lot of corners.

In honor of our fifth wedding anniversary, here are my top 5 frugal wedding tips:

  1. Trim your guest list. This will lessen your catering, invitation cards and souvenir costs, at the minimum. If catering cost is pegged at 1, 000 Pesos per plate and you have 100 guests… you do the math. My mom had actually asked if she can invite a couple of her friends but I had to put my foot down. We only invited up to our second-degree relatives and close friends to make the ceremony intimate and personal. Most of D’s relatives live overseas and they can’t travel on a short notice so that saved us a lot of money haha!
  2. Choose a venue that does not need many decors. D and I got married in a quaint little chapel, atop a hill and is surrounded by nature. Getting married in this chapel saved us a lot of money because we only had to put flowers around the aisles instead of decorating the chapel’s both interior and exterior walls. We also held our reception in a big garden, (slightly) overlooking Taal Volcano. Fresh air and no additional flowers required.

    December 14, 2012. Transfiguration Chapel, Caleruega, Batangas.
  3. Buy outfits off the rack. We bought D’s outfit at H & M and Marks & Spencer shops in Qatar. Until now he still uses his wedding outfit as his office attire, except for the bow tie of course. We got my white weddings shoes at Aldo, unfortunately, I have already disposed of it because it got ruined after washing. Buying off the rack saves you a lot of money as long as you’re not finicky!
  4. Book your suppliers during wedding fairs. Wedding fairs are usually held in the Philippines every June and December. We were able to get at least a 25% discount on our wedding invitation cards and missalette covers because we booked them in a wedding fair. We were also given a 10% discount on the bridal car which we got at the same event. Most suppliers are considerate and they offer affordable payment schemes.
  5. Have an inexpensive but meaningful cake. Our wedding cake was not just inexpensive, it was also meaningful to both of us. It consisted of three layers: Pizza Hut delivery box, Louis Vuitton bag and Nike gym bag. The groom used to work at Pizza Hut and we met while he’s at work. For the first few years of living in Qatar, D would gift me with LV bags because that is his payment for everything that I spent on his behalf while we were still dating. Like a typical Filipino guy, he is a basketball player oh, I meant a sports buff wink wink. The wedding cake topper is of us riding our first ever vehicle – a jeep. A simple three-layered white cake costs at least 10, 000 Pesos. So, why not spend (almost) the same amount on a personalized one?
Three-layered wedding cake

I hope that you are able to have some frugal ideas for your dream wedding. There are several ways to save money on wedding expenses but, I merely wrote these tips in honor of our 5th wedding anniversary. Always remember that it is much better to invest in your marriage, not just your wedding!

Do you think this article might help you save money in your upcoming wedding? I would appreciate a comment or two. If you know people who can benefit from My Favorite Lists, please use the social icons to share!


Good night,


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13 thoughts on “My Top 5 Frugal Wedding Tips Leave a comment

  1. What a creative wedding cake!
    Anyway, I strongly agree that beautiful church and venue can help couples to save money from decoration. I hope that more beautiful venue will also be open around Bulacan too.


  2. My friend got married in the same church last month! She asked us (her friends) who were part of the entourage if we can shoulder the cost of our dresses, same with the grooms men. They bought their pants using their own money. We also paid for our make-up, transpo and accomodation. It was pricey but we were happy to witness her dream wedding come true. She gave us enough time to
    Save money since she notified us a couple of months before the wedding date 🙂 More power to your marriage! 🙂


  3. Some great ideas here ! My other half and I are planning on eloping, so the guest list will be non-existent! e’d rather spend our money on a super long trip away!


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